Abiquiu, New Mexico

Abiquiu, New Mexico

Friday, August 20, 2010

FIVE THINGS NOT TO DO AT A WRITERS CONFERENCE

FIVE THINGS NOT TO DO AT A WRITERS CONFERENCE

A writers conference can be a scary thing -- especially your first one. I attended my first one by myself as an unpubbed author. I knew no one. The conference was held in the gorgeous Rocky Mountains, and I walked around that week enjoying the scenery, but with my brain on overload and my confidence and esteem taking a self-inflicted beating.

I cannot even count how many writers conferences I have been to since then -- some as an attendee, some as a faculty member, and they all have been valuable. Having been on both sides of the unpubbed/pubbed fence, I'd like to make some suggestions as to what NOT to do at conference.

1.) DO NOT RETREAT TO YOUR ROOM EVERY TIME YOU HAVE FREE TIME. Some of the most valuable networking that you will do will occur in the dining room, lingering over a meal, walking to class, in the worship sessions. I met one of my favorite authors, Ted Dekker, in the elevator in Denver and since we are fellow Thomas Nelson authors, I felt as if I had made a new friend.

2.) DON'T BURN THE CANDLE AT BOTH ENDS TO THE POINT OF EXHAUSTION. Although you should try to go to the workshops that interest you, it's not possible to go to all of them. Sign up for the ones that are most appealing and leave some time to absorb what you've learned. Put your feet up for a few minutes after lunch or between classes and go over your notes. Leave a time slot completely vacant in order to catch your breath. Go to the bookstore and look at all the choice books available. You'll wear yourself out physically and emotionally if you don't space out your time wisely.


3.) DON'T AVOID PUBLISHED AUTHORS, EDITORS AND AGENTS. I know they can be pretty intimidating.  But, every one of us was unpubbed at one time. And if the truth be known, every one of us has doubts about our own writing now and then (gasp!). We love to talk to our readers. The editors, publishers and agents are so ready and willing to help. You are not a nuisance when you stop to visit. It is their privilege and pleasure to do so.

4.) DON'T SKIP THE WORSHIP SESSIONS AND THE KEYNOTE ADDRESSES. Some of the richest times at conference will come during these sessions. God has always spoken a particular word to my heart through the speakers and the worship. Avail yourself of some of the best speakers in the nation in Christian publishing. You'll be glad you did!

5.) One last word of advice: DON'T GET DISCOURAGED. I was at a writers conference one year when an unpubbed author left in the middle of the conference in a tailspin, because one of the editors said his work was not ready yet to be published. It is discouraging to have one editor after another shake their head, but every "no" that you receive just brings you closer to your "yes." If God has called you to write, then learn how to write at the very top level of your ability through the information you'll glean at conference. Then leave the results up to Him. Psalm 138:8 says, "The Lord will perfect that which concerns me; Your mercy and loving-kindness, O Lord, endure forever--forsake not the works of Your own hands." God is for you!

A final "don't" -- DON'T MISS THE CLASSEMINAR’S WRITERS CONFERENCE AT GHOST RANCH! You’ll be glad you went.






GOLDEN KEYES PARSONS

Golden Keyes Parsons is a popular retreat and conference speaker, author of historical novels and an ordained pastor. Her book, “In The Shadow Of The Sun King,” (Thomas Nelson Publishing), first in a four-book series based on her family genealogy, released Fall 2008, and was named a finalist in the ACFW’s Book of the Year Debut Author category. Her second book, “Prisoner Of Versailles,” was released September 2009 and was named a finalist in RWA’s prestigious Daphne contest. The concluding book in the series, “Where Hearts Are Free” releases September 2010.


www.goldenkeyesparsons.com.



5 comments:

  1. These are great tips Golden exactly what we need to make any conference a success. Will you be at the Ghost Ranch this year?
    Blessings... Linda

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  2. Ahhh, what you wrote feels all too familiar with 2009 Ghost Ranch being my 1st writers conference. This year I'm going with a much different perspective.
    I too went, not knowing a soul – aside from getting to know 2 people (strangers) via Twitter. So as soon as we figured out who each other was in the airport, we clung onto each other for support and kindship.
    I couldn't agree more with the "DON'T SKIP THE WORSHIP SESSIONS AND THE KEYNOTE ADDRESSES" - those were the highlights of my adventure last year, and I'm really looking forward to this year's event!

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  3. 2009 CLASS Writer's Conference was also my first. Initially I felt pressured to have a project to present like "everyone else." Fortunately, the Lord spoke to my heart quickly and relieved me of that pressure. Instead, I found myself absorbing and waiting on Him. What an incredible learning opportunity. I'm planning on attending 2010 as well. Wouldn't miss it!

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  4. Thanks for dropping by and taking time to make a comment! I hope the article was helpful. I love what God does as we let Him guide our steps at a conference. It can prove to be exciting!

    I don't think I'm going to make it this year, Linda. I had a scheduling conflict :(

    Golden

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  5. I love that you give permission to not go to everything! I got to the near-end of last year's conference & felt that crash. Felt bad about missing that session, but enjoyed just wandering thru the bookstore.
    It also helped to share notes with my roomie, so I got an overview of classes that occurred at the same time.

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